Saturday, June 27, 2009

Family update

Camille wanted to send an update to our friends and family who look at our blog for updates. We have had a rough couple of weeks... On June 10th we had an ultrasound appt at McKay Dee... So with that being said and a lot of people didn't know that Camille was pregnant on the 10th she was just over 20 weeks along. During the first few minutes of the ultrasound the tech said that she had to go talk to the Dr.... Now that is when the panicking came in as we have been through this before about 6 years ago with the twins. She came back in and continued the ultrasound as normal so we though she had to talk to the Dr about the previous ultrasound. She then said that she heard the Dr and left the room and this was about 15 minutes which seemed 3 hours to us. So when she came back in we put her on the spot and said "you didn't see a heart beat did you". I do feel real bad that we did that. She was so caring and gracious and did tell us that she didn't see one. We were both in tears and pretty upset, and then the Dr. came in to continue the exam. The staff there at McKay were awesome in every way!! Thank you Ashley (ultrasound tech) for being there for us and being such a great person.

So we had to go to the hospital the next day June 11th to have Camille be induced at 7:00am and needless to say we went home at 2:30 Friday morning. Camille had a hard time with the delivery and finally had to be taking into surgery where they put her out so she didn't have to feel the pain. It was so hard to watch my beautiful wife go through that and I was so thankful for the wonderful Dr and nurses that we had who cared so much for us. The baby was a baby girl (yes I can make them!!!) we named her Samantha Allen.

We want to take a quick second to say THANK YOU to all of our family, friends for all of the support and love. We have been very blessed with the love, prayers and thoughts that were passed our way. We don't know why these things happen, but we do know that we have a loving Heavenly Father who will help through this and one day we will know the exact reason.

Camille is doing real good and has taken some time off of work to rest and relax. The boys are doing well with it. Tyler had the hardest time, but is doing well.

We were given this poem from a good friend and I would like to share it. (Thanks Amy):

Little Angels
When God calls little children to dwell with Him above,
We mortals sometimes question the wisdom of His love.
For no heartache compares with the death of one small child,
Who does so much to make our world seem wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling the aged to His fold,
So He picks a rosebud before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them and so He takes but few,
To make the land of Heaven more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult still somehow we must try,
The saddest word mankind knows will always be "goodbye"
So when a little child departs we who are left behind,
We must realize God loves children, Angels are had to find.

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear about your loss. These things are never easy, you have had more than your share.

God Bless!!!

Timani said...

Eric & Camille, so sad to hear of your loss and what a trial you have endured and continue to endure. I pray you'll continue to feel the love Heavenly Father has for you and know Samantha is waiting and watching...she's another one of your own personal guardian angels.

How fitting that my word verification is 'praise'.

~Timani

Jake and Amy said...

So sorry to hear about your loss! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys; please let us know if you need anything at all.

Ryan and Mandi said...

Eric and Camille,

I am so sorry to hear about this. It's hard to imagine why you would have to endure this again. I love you guys and will be thinking about you. What an amazing family you have and what a wonderful reunion you will all have when you see your boys and baby girl again.

With love,

Ryan and Mandi Wood

Allen said...

Thank you all! We appreciate your love and concern.

Julie said...

Eric,Camille, and Family,

So sorry to hear about your loss. It breaks my heart. We think about you often and wish you comfort at this time. What a trooper you are, Camille. You are a strong daughter of our Heavenly Father. What a reunion you wil have in the next life. Wishing you better times to come.

Thibault's said...

Sorry to hear this. It makes me cry to hear about your hardships. Let us know if you need anything.

Anonymous said...

I truely am sorry for your loss! I'll try to stop picking on you at work and throwing ketchup packets at you. You are a great dad with a cute family. I love the pictures of your boys. They are going to be characters just like you!

Sara said...

Eric and Camille,

I too am sorry about your loss. I can't imagine the pain and sadness involved in losing a child. I do have to say however how impressed I have been by the two of you. The faith and trust that you have in Heavenly Father's plan for you is amazing and refreshing. You have taken a trial and have tried to find the positive in it all. You are great examples to your children and to the many people that surround you.
I am so excited for your family to be reunited with Samantha and the twins!! What a great day that will be!

P.S. Eric I bet Camille is so proud that you are able to make girls too! HA ha ha! :)

Mickelson Family said...

I am so sorry to have checked on your blog SO late. I didn't know you guys were going through a hard time. If you guys need to have the boys over to our house for the day or longer please let me know. Just give me a call. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. We will keep you guys in our prayers still.

Love ya,
The Mickelsons